Day 16: Volunteer

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Today’s objective: Consider possibilities of volunteering and the benefits of it.

Volunteering has many positive effects: it increases the feeling of connectedness with your community and further wards off loneliness and depression. From a self-love perspective, it encourages gratitude, generosity and kindness. And if that isn’t enough: a 2012 study conducted by scientists from the University of Michigan found that people who volunteer have a lower mortality rate – than people who don’t. On top of it all, it can be a lot of fun: think the possibility of meeting lots of interesting people in an environment which is much more suited to social interaction and making contacts than the traditional, commercial gay scene. In fact, while living in London, myself and several of my friends swore that volunteering is by far the best way to meet other people: friends and lovers… you decide.

If you are already volunteering: well done. And I’m sure you need no more convincing about the benefits volunteering can bring. However, if you are not currently volunteering, use

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Four Alternative Ways of Meeting New (not only gay) Friends

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