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Day 25: Playing BDSM

Day 25: Playing BDSM

Today’s objective: Talking about scenes and creating consent Yesterday you created three different scene outlines for BDSM scenes, one focusing mostly on sensation, one on power and a third one according to what you like. The focus today will be

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Day 24: Exploring BDSM

Day 24: Exploring BDSM

Today’s objective: Find out more about how BDSM can become part of your sex life. BDSM, Bondage, Domination, Submission/Sadism and Masochism, can at first seem scary to some people, mostly because it is largely misunderstood and misrepresented. Often it is

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Day 16: Emergency Stops

Day 16: Emergency Stops

Today’s objective: Learn “emergency stop” techniques to avoid ejaculation Breathing, as practiced yesterday, is very effective to delay ejaculation to a stage where you are well into ecstasy territory and with some training it should become a natural way to

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Day 15: Taoist Breathing, the Microcosmic Orbit

Day 15: Taoist Breathing, the Microcosmic Orbit

Today’s objective: Learn to breathe to prolong sex without ejaculation While you were performing yesterday’s activity, you might have noticed the crucial role that breathing has when you are close to cuming. Many guys speed up their breath when they

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Day 14: Edge yourself

Day 14: Edge yourself

Today’s objective: Understand the logic of “non-ejaculation” If cuming, as a way of saying ejaculation, sounds like the best thing in sex to you… you are not alone: I reckon 99% of males think exactly that. The problem? Most men

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Day 13: Wanking and Masturbation

Day 13: Wanking and Masturbation

Today’s objective: Celebrate having sex with yourself Wanking or masturbation is a tricky topic for many, riddled with shame and guilt. Many people grow up to associate masturbation as an inferior replacement to having sex with someone else. Or worse,

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Day 12: Talking and Negotiating Consent

Day 12: Talking and Negotiating Consent

Today’s objective: Negotiating consent Yesterday’s activity asked you to start negotiating consent, at least on a fictional level. Let’s recap quickly how consent works. Here are the five golden rules of consent: 1. If anything is ambiguous, stop it and

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Day 11: Consent

Day 11: Consent

Today’s objective: Exploring how to seek and give consent. Within the sex positive community seeking and giving consent is an important topic. Being sex positive doesn’t mean you have you are always willing to have sex. It means you are

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Day 10: Let’s talk about sex

Day 10: Let’s talk about sex

Today’s objective: Explore how to talk about sex with your partner. Talking about sex is a difficult subject for many guys, at least when it means talking to your actual partner(s). While many guys find it relatively easy to express

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Day 9: Sexual Learning

Day 9: Sexual Learning

Today’s objective: Outline your sexual learning As the saying goes… What’s better than learning? More learning! You have now started the first steps on the most fun and satisfying journey you can take. And, after the planning and outlining a

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