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Six Ideas to make the holidays sexy

Six Ideas to make the holidays sexy

If for you the holiday season is often the season of far too much stress and too little fun, here are a few ideas to inject some holiday sexiness into the season. Don’t forget to share your ways of making

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Transparent sexual selves

Transparent sexual selves

Guest post from zoereei blog. Check out his blog for many more posts about sex and about the constant changing nature of life. I have the freedom to sexually relate to whoever and however I want to. And yet I

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Let’s start the week Sex-Positively!

Let’s start the week Sex-Positively!

It’s the start of the new week, and also the first Monday of December! What better reason than to check in with ourselves and see if our own mindset isn’t besieged by the popular sex-negative attitude surrounding us in our

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5 Reasons to schedule a long sex session with your partner – right now.

5 Reasons to schedule a long sex session with your partner – right now.

With the nights getting longer, here are five great reasons to make room in your busy schedule for a longer sex session with your partner – right now. 1. Really feel the sex Spontaneous and quick sex is great, however,

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Day 28: Playing with others

Day 28:  Playing with others

Today’s objective: Thinking about adding others into your play Opening up can be a tricky subject for some people, while others see it as a natural part of gay sex. Some couples avoid it all together, others have elaborate rules

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Day 27: Jealousy

Day 27: Jealousy

Today’s objective: Identify and talk about jealousy It is impossible to talk about sex, and adopting a sex positive attitude without also considering at least briefly jealousy. Of course, some people are more jealous than others, and some people even

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Day 26: Playing in public or outside

Day 26: Playing in public or outside

Today’s objective: Think about playing… in public or outside So far this workshop has focused mostly on the “technical” aspects of sex: that is to say one thing that the workshop hasn’t focused on, is where to play… However, exploring

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Day 25: Playing BDSM

Day 25: Playing BDSM

Today’s objective: Talking about scenes and creating consent Yesterday you created three different scene outlines for BDSM scenes, one focusing mostly on sensation, one on power and a third one according to what you like. The focus today will be

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Day 24: Exploring BDSM

Day 24: Exploring BDSM

Today’s objective: Find out more about how BDSM can become part of your sex life. BDSM, Bondage, Domination, Submission/Sadism and Masochism, can at first seem scary to some people, mostly because it is largely misunderstood and misrepresented. Often it is

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Day 23: Playing with Toys

Day 23: Playing with Toys

Today’s objective: Create a toy play scene Yesterday you should have created a wish-list of three toys or accessories by visiting a sex shop. Probably, you have already imagined how you could use these: either alone or maybe with someone

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