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It’s great news and exciting news!

You probably noticed that it has been a little quiet on the urbangay website recently. This is because I was really busy with two great projects – and I’m excited to let you know more about them today – and more will be revealed over the next few weeks! Although there was more interaction as the curators for the @urbangay twitter account took over last month, now it is all back to me… so I’m looking forward to hearing from you! And here are the details of the exciting things that are happening in the world of urbangay: 1. The […]

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Three reasons to get active for every gay man

A guest post by Paul, who is the curator for the @urbangay twitter this week, follow him, interact and talk to him on twitter until Sunday! This week I’m taking over the @urbangay twitter account for a week. My interest is mainly in being healthy and active, and I think it is something really important. Not just because of the obvious and well-known health reasons (and making for better sex!). But there are three more reasons why it is especially important for gay men. Here they are: 1) It’s great to make you feel good Engaging in sports and eating […]

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Sexual Discovery – now available as a book

Enjoyed the workshop? Want to revisit some of the activities of Sexual Discovery? The complete 30 Days workshop materials are now available as a soft cover book and ebook! 30 days of sex positive activities, self discovery and hot, playful learning! Available now from any good bookseller. ISBN 978-1973779131 (soft cover)   978-1370218707 (eBook) To order online see bookfinder  or Amazon:   US – UK – CA – DE – FR – IT – IN – JP – BR Or as a digital PDF download here: From multiorgasmic play to kink – it’s a journey like no other. Contents: Welcome! Day 1 Overview and Expectations Day 2 […]

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Coming 1 July: 30 Days Sexual Discovery

30 days of sex positive activities, self discovery and hot, playful learning! The free, 30 day of workshop will start 1 July, exclusively for urbangay members. Broaden your sexual horizon: experiment with new ways to play, discover ancient sex secrets and write your very own sexual manifesto! From multiorgasmic play to kink – it’s a journey like no other. Topics covered in the workshop: Develop a sex positive attitude Dealing with fear, shame and guilt How to “own” your sex Making consent sexy Taoist multiorgasm techniques Tantra intimacy rituals Toys, BDSM and public play Jealousy and relationships. I never really […]

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Body, mind, happiness: the urbangay way

I had no reason to be unhappy: everything was fine. But I had a nagging feeling that everything could be amazing. The idea for urbangay didn’t start as an idea to create a specific program or even a specific approach… In fact, it all started as a personal growth project … and grew from there. How? A few years ago things didn’t really go well for me: not that there was anything specific wrong that needed fixing. I had a stable job at as a university lecturer, traveled a lot, owned a nice apartment with an amazing view over the […]

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