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Today’s objective: Identify your sexual routines

Let’s get ready to have some sex! What will you do? … Sounds a bit like a cheeky question? Of course, it is. But it also reveals a little hidden secret to unlocking greater sexual discovery. When I asked the question you most likely had one or even a few possible “story lines” of what could happen flash up in your mind. Those story lines, buried inside you and almost never challenged are your sexual routines. They help you to have sex: because you know what you’re doing, you don’t have to start thinking about it again. In other words, they help you play the play.

Of course, sex where you are free to focus on your feeling at the moment is better than sex where you have to figure out what you have to do. You basically have all your sensations freed up by sticking to a set of scripts you know have ‘worked’ before. However,… [End of preview]

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Day 6: Sexual Routines
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